Now, I'm not saying playing AAA is a prerequisite for being an elite level player, because as you said, there are SOME very good players that have never played AAA in the off-season. That being said, I would say that MOST of the top elite level players at the Bantam/High School level DID play in the summer by their bantam years, at least.. I guess the definition of "elite" is the key. My definition is the top 20 kids at any birth year, and from my experience, just about all of those kids play competitive hockey in the summer....usually for teams like the Blades or Icemen.DMom wrote:[quote="dogeatdog1. 3)when your kid tells you that the best kids he's playing with never played AAA, he's probably right. 4) the two kids I know that went to 15s had never played on a AAA team, the one kid I know of getting a full ride to Harvard this year never played on a AAA team (but he has a straight A average). 5) As a parent, listen to your kid, they know what they want to do.
But, you're right, it's the parent's job to LISTEN to your kid and understand what their make-up is. Some kids love to play AAA summer hockey more than they love playing association hockey. Every kid is different. There is no shoe that fits all sizes.